My sister-in-law’s Halloween party was a yearly affair—a swanky, over-the-top event where every detail from the decor to the costumes screamed luxury. When she saw us arrive in our matching Superman costumes, her face turned stony. Without missing a beat, she informed us that our outfits might “confuse” her guests and promptly kicked us out. I knew her well enough to see this wasn’t about any supposed confusion; this was her latest power move. But, little did she know, it sparked an idea that would soon become the most talked-about spectacle her ritzy neighborhood had ever seen.
My boys and I had spent days planning our costumes, inspired by my oldest, who had eagerly shared his vision of our “Super Family” over dinner. His excitement had even infected my husband, who, with grease still smeared on his cheek from a day’s work at our family-owned auto shop, immediately agreed to join in. He’d long been the outlier in his family, choosing a career in hands-on work over the corporate lifestyle they’d laid out for him. My husband’s family had struggled to accept me at first, and though I learned to live with the judgmental glances and whispered comments, this insult was aimed at my children’s joy—a line that shouldn’t have been crossed.
As we walked away, my husband and I quickly agreed: the night wasn’t over. We piled back into the car, turning our backs on the mansion’s pretentious decorations, fog machines, and designer costumes. Instead, we headed for the local Halloween festival downtown, where the boys played games, got their faces painted, and immersed themselves in the true Halloween spirit. They won a giant stuffed bat, savored hot chocolate with marshmallows, and watched skits by the local theater group. My son beamed up at me, chocolate smeared across his face, and declared, “This is way better than Aunt Isla’s party!”